孤犊触乳

gū dú chù rǔ
Literal: "orphaned, calf, bumps, udder"

📖 Meaning

Originally, this idiom described how an only son, spoiled by excessive indulgence, grows arrogant and brings harm upon his parents. It is now used metaphorically to refer to a helpless, isolated person who has no choice but to seek assistance from others.

📜 Origin Story

This idiom originates from a commentary in the 'Book of the Later Han' (《后汉书·仇览传》), which cites Xie Cheng's (谢丞) version of the same history. The original text reads '孤独触乳,骄子骂母' — an orphaned calf butts the udder, and a spoiled child scolds his mother — illustrating how overindulgence breeds rebellion that harms the very people who doted on the child. During the Eastern Han period, Qiu Lan (仇览) was known as a principled local official who emphasized moral education, and this passage was used to caution against spoiling children. Over time, the phrase evolved to also describe a person without support seeking help from others.

💡 Example Usage

他孤犊触乳,四处求人帮助,却无人愿意伸出援手。

With no one to rely on, he went everywhere seeking help, yet no one was willing to lend a hand.

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🔤 Quick Facts

  • Chinese: 孤犊触乳
  • Pinyin: gū dú chù rǔ
  • Literal Translation: orphaned, calf, bumps, udder
  • Category: Condition
  • Characters: 4