宽大为怀

kuān dà wéi huái
Literal: "broad, great, as, heart"

📖 Meaning

To treat others with a generous and forgiving heart. It describes someone who is lenient and magnanimous when dealing with people who have made mistakes or caused offense, choosing tolerance over punishment.

📜 Origin Story

This idiom appears in Feng Yuxiang's memoir 'The Chiang Kai-shek I Knew' (《我所认识的蒋介石》), Chapter 71, where he advises that one should be magnanimous and not go too far in punishing others. The phrase encapsulates a traditional Chinese virtue of clemency and broad-mindedness that has roots in Confucian ethics. Feng Yuxiang, a prominent Republic-era warlord and military leader, invoked this principle when discussing how to handle political adversaries.

💡 Example Usage

既然他已经认错,我们就宽大为怀,不再追究了。

Since he has admitted his mistake, we will be generous and let the matter drop.

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🔤 Quick Facts

  • Chinese: 宽大为怀
  • Pinyin: kuān dà wéi huái
  • Literal Translation: broad, great, as, heart
  • Category: Morality
  • Characters: 4