📖 Meaning
To drag in irrelevant matters or people during a conversation or discussion. It describes someone who wanders off the main topic and brings in unrelated issues instead of addressing the matter at hand.
📜 Origin Story
This idiom originates from the classic Qing dynasty novel 'Dream of the Red Chamber' (红楼梦) by Cao Xueqin. In Chapter 46, the character uses it to criticize someone who, when asked a straightforward question about willingness, instead of giving a direct answer, drags in all sorts of unrelated matters. The phrase vividly conveys the image of pulling and tugging at scattered, unconnected things rather than staying focused.
💡 Example Usage
有话就直说，犯不着拉三扯四地扯上别人。
If you have something to say, just say it directly—there's no need to drag in all sorts of irrelevant things and involve other people.
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🔤 Quick Facts
- Chinese: 拉三扯四
- Pinyin: lā sān chě sì
- Literal Translation: pull, three, drag, four
- Category: Communication
- Characters: 4