老莱娱亲

lǎo lái yú qīn
Literal: "old, Laizi, amuse, parents"

📖 Meaning

Describes the extreme filial devotion of Lao Laizi, who amused his aged parents by behaving like a baby. It is used to praise children who go out of their way to bring joy and comfort to their elderly parents.

📜 Origin Story

The story comes from Western Han scholar Liu Xiang's work Biographies of Exemplary Women (列女传). Lao Laizi, a recluse of the Chu state during the Spring and Autumn period, was deeply filial toward his parents. Even at seventy years of age, he dressed in five-colored clothes and capered about like a baby so his parents would feel young and happy. Once, carrying a bucket of water up to the hall, he tripped and fell; rather than rise, he lay on the floor crying like an infant so his parents would laugh instead of worrying.

💡 Example Usage

他年近花甲,仍常扮作孩童模样逗父母开心,真有老莱娱亲之风。

Though nearly sixty, he often plays the child to amuse his parents, truly embodying the spirit of Lao Laizi amusing his parents.

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🔤 Quick Facts

  • Chinese: 老莱娱亲
  • Pinyin: lǎo lái yú qīn
  • Literal Translation: old, Laizi, amuse, parents
  • Category: Morality
  • Characters: 4