命薄缘悭

mìng báo yuán qiān
Literal: "fate, thin, destiny, meager"

📖 Meaning

This idiom describes someone whose fortune is poor and whose karmic connections with others are shallow. It conveys a sense of unfortunate destiny and missed connections, often used in contexts of failed romances or unfulfilled relationships.

📜 Origin Story

This phrase draws on classical Chinese literary and Buddhist-influenced traditions. The component 命薄 (ill-fated) appears frequently in Ming and Qing vernacular novels, notably describing tragic heroines such as Lin Daiyu in Dream of the Red Chamber. The component 缘悭 (shallow destiny) reflects the Buddhist concept of 缘 (karmic affinity) combined with 悭 (meager or lacking). Together the expression crystallizes a recurring theme in Chinese tragic romance literature, where ill fortune and insufficient karmic bonds prevent lovers from being together.

💡 Example Usage

她自叹命薄缘悭,与心上人终难相守。

She lamented her ill fortune and shallow destiny, unable to remain together with her beloved in the end.

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🔤 Quick Facts

  • Chinese: 命薄缘悭
  • Pinyin: mìng báo yuán qiān
  • Literal Translation: fate, thin, destiny, meager
  • Category: Condition
  • Characters: 4