齐眉举案

qí méi jǔ àn
Literal: "equal, eyebrow, raise, tray"

📖 Meaning

To raise a serving tray to the height of one's eyebrows. It describes mutual respect and courtesy between husband and wife. It is a variant of the more common form 举案齐眉.

📜 Origin Story

The idiom originates from the story of Liang Hong and his wife Meng Guang during the Eastern Han dynasty. Liang Hong was a scholar who married Meng Guang, a woman known for her virtue. Each time Meng Guang served meals to her husband, she would raise the food tray to the level of her eyebrows as a gesture of deep respect. This story was recorded in the Book of Later Han (后汉书) and became a lasting symbol of marital harmony and mutual reverence.

💡 Example Usage

他们夫妻结婚多年,始终齐眉举案,相敬如宾。

After many years of marriage, the couple have always treated each other with the utmost respect and courtesy.

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🔤 Quick Facts

  • Chinese: 齐眉举案
  • Pinyin: qí méi jǔ àn
  • Literal Translation: equal, eyebrow, raise, tray
  • Category: Attitude
  • Characters: 4