塞翁得马

sài wēng dé mǎ
Literal: "frontier, old man, obtain, horse"

📖 Meaning

A metaphor for the unpredictability of fortune and misfortune, where good and bad outcomes are intertwined. It suggests that what appears to be a gain may carry hidden loss, and vice versa. The idiom reminds us that luck is never purely good or purely bad.

📜 Origin Story

The story originates from an ancient tale about an old man living on the northern frontier who lost his horse, only for it to return with a fine stallion—seemingly a blessing, yet his son broke his leg riding it, which spared him from conscription into a deadly war. The phrase was later immortalized by Feng Menglong in the Ming dynasty work 'Jingshi Tongyan' (Stories to Caution the World), where he wrote that the frontier old man gaining a horse was not necessarily auspicious. The tale illustrates that fortune and disaster are relative and can transform into one another. It draws from a Han dynasty anecdote recorded in 'Huainanzi'.

💡 Example Usage

这次升职看似风光,实则塞翁得马,谁也不知道后面会带来什么麻烦。

This promotion seems glamorous, but like the frontier old man who gained a horse, who knows what trouble it may bring later.

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🔤 Quick Facts

  • Chinese: 塞翁得马
  • Pinyin: sài wēng dé mǎ
  • Literal Translation: frontier, old man, obtain, horse
  • Category: Wisdom
  • Characters: 4