先人后己

xiān rén hòu jǐ
Literal: "first, others, after, self"

📖 Meaning

To consider the needs and interests of others before thinking of oneself. It describes a selfless attitude of prioritizing others and embodying altruism and moral integrity.

📜 Origin Story

This idiom originates from the 'Book of Rites' (礼记·坊记), a Confucian classic compiled during the Han dynasty. In the text, Confucius (referred to as 'the Master,' 子) states that a gentleman values others above himself, putting others first and himself second. The saying reflects the Confucian ideal of benevolence (仁) and proper ethical conduct in social relationships.

💡 Example Usage

他在工作中始终先人后己,赢得了同事们的尊敬。

He always puts others before himself at work, earning the respect of his colleagues.

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🔤 Quick Facts

  • Chinese: 先人后己
  • Pinyin: xiān rén hòu jǐ
  • Literal Translation: first, others, after, self
  • Category: Morality
  • Characters: 4