言行相悖

yán xíng xiāng bèi
Literal: "words, actions, mutually, contradict"

📖 Meaning

Speaking and acting in contradictory ways. It describes someone whose words do not match their deeds, revealing a fundamental inconsistency between what they profess and what they actually do.

📜 Origin Story

This idiom does not originate from a single classical text or historical anecdote. It is a compound formed from the common terms 言行 (words and deeds) and 相悖 (mutually contradictory), both deeply rooted in Chinese philosophical tradition. The ideal of unity between words and actions was a recurring theme throughout Chinese intellectual history, from Confucius's emphasis on sincerity in the Analects to later Neo-Confucian moral philosophy, which stressed that a person of integrity must never say one thing and do another.

💡 Example Usage

他整日高谈诚信,自己却言行相悖,实在令人失望。

He talks endlessly about integrity, yet his own words and deeds contradict each other, which is truly disappointing.

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🔤 Quick Facts

  • Chinese: 言行相悖
  • Pinyin: yán xíng xiāng bèi
  • Literal Translation: words, actions, mutually, contradict
  • Category: Morality
  • Characters: 4