冤家对头

yuān jia duì tóu
Literal: "grievance person, opposing head"

📖 Meaning

Refers to sworn enemies or mortal foes — two people who harbor deep resentment toward each other and cannot coexist peacefully. It often describes a relationship of irreconcilable hostility, whether between individuals or opposing forces.

📜 Origin Story

The idiom originates from the Qing Dynasty writer Li Yu's play 'Shen Luan Jiao: Hen Tu' (慎鸾交·狠图). In the play, a character laments that scholarly talent and monetary wealth are like '冤家对头' — sworn enemies that refuse to meet each other. The phrase captures the idea that certain things are naturally antagonistic, like cats and dogs. Over time, it became a common expression for any pair of bitter adversaries.

💡 Example Usage

这两个冤家对头一见面就吵得不可开交。

These two sworn enemies start quarreling fiercely the moment they lay eyes on each other.

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🔤 Quick Facts

  • Chinese: 冤家对头
  • Pinyin: yuān jia duì tóu
  • Literal Translation: grievance person, opposing head
  • Category: Status
  • Characters: 4