过桥拆桥

guò qiáo chāi qiáo
Literal: "cross, bridge, dismantle, bridge"

📖 Meaning

To burn the bridge after crossing it. Once one's goal is achieved, one discards or turns against those who helped along the way. It describes ingratitude and ruthless opportunism.

📜 Origin Story

The phrase appears in the Qing-era novel《官场现形记》by 李宝嘉, where it is used to criticize officials who abandon their benefactors once they attain position. The metaphor is a variant of the older and more common expression 过河拆桥. In both forms, the imagery of destroying a bridge after safely crossing it symbolizes discarding the very means of help that made success possible.

💡 Example Usage

他这种过桥拆桥的做法,迟早会失去所有朋友。

His habit of burning bridges will sooner or later cost him all his friends.

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🔤 Quick Facts

  • Chinese: 过桥拆桥
  • Pinyin: guò qiáo chāi qiáo
  • Literal Translation: cross, bridge, dismantle, bridge
  • Category: Morality
  • Characters: 4